Everybody’s so busy looking for answers these days, we often forget to ask the right questions.

Everybody’s so busy looking for answers these days, we often forget to ask the right questions. That’s why we started The Ten Stages. A method of working through the spiritual world of our trapped child within that helps us to become surprisingly relevant in a connected world. If you want to know what we do, perhaps you should really ask what we do differently. Reconnection to our true self is our goal

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Healed of our child withins trauma

Healed of our child withins trauma, we become human at last, living in harmony with self, others, and the natural world. In essence, we become consonant with truth—Truly Recovered.
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The world hell-bent on violent revenge

We traumatise our soldiers we reduce them to a bloodthirsty military because their we will mindlessly kill anyone when ordered. Thus we perpetuates grand horrors and retaliation in the world, which proves to the world hell-bent on violent revenge that our criminal presence is required.

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WE are just in too denial too deep.

WE are just in too denial too deep. We will wake up at nothing short of personal catastrophe. Oh, We hate what they do—even though they are but traumatised children more in need of love than anything. We are the testament to our failed society Oh, future humanity is bleak.Related articles

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Creating greater confusion we returned to the middle ages as we struggled into space to leave a dying planet that our stupidity has destroyed

The blindness of our traumas has blocked our vision and our motivation. Our addiction to denial and anxiety is too strong. You know this now, because you have had to do your best both to grieve your missed opportunities and to clean up the horrible remnants of the mess we, the historic voices left you. We too needed to grieve, but instead we just created more gods of dissociation.





Creating greater confusion we returned to the middle ages as we struggled into space to leave a dying planet that our stupidity has destroyed

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Walking forward on the path toward full enlightenment

As we journey forward in the ten stages , different parts of ourselves live at different stages of healing from dissociation. Some parts can be amazingly healed and insightful, while others can remain buried and out of touch. Our different parts traverse the various stages at their own speeds, seemingly independently – but ultimately connected to our core of perfection by our universal thread of truth.

The most primitive stage on life’s healing journey is that of contest. This is the stage of grandiosity, acceptance by the norm, dissociated happiness, and approval by the historic parents. The parts of us that are winning the contest stop our journey before it has even begun. Here we deny our deepest traumas so intensely that we fool even ourselves into believing they never happened – and that we are already healed. It is for this reason that dissociation mimics enlightenment. Here we idealise the ancient historic parent, which allows us full unconscious liberty to replicate the worst of our past in our present. Here we do not look beneath our surface, and if fate goes our way, we will never have to. We remain happily distant from the misery lurking in our guts.

Yet where parts of us lose the contest we evolve into the second stage: suffering. This is the stage of depression, failure, misery, and inertia. Here we wallow in seemingly purposeless pain. The silver lining around our cloud of parental idealisation has been stripped away, but the cloud remains intact. We still wish to be rescued by our parents and their replicated stand-ins, but we lack the requisite pain tolerance to be able to acknowledge the impossibility of this. Here we live in tortured ambivalence, and we spend out hours and days trying to get others to love us in the way our parents never could. Part of us wishes to devolve back into the seeming pleasure of grandiosity, but the healthier part recalls how cruelly that route already failed us.


Those parts of us with the capacity to face our terrors enter the third stage: grieving. This is the stage of purposeful struggling. Here we unearth the truth of our past, which allows the eruption of the stinking cesspool of our buried traumas. Here we witness the horror lurking behind idealisation/normalisation of the parents and we work to disassemble their lies. Our honest confidence leads us into the face of the hurricane, because our child within and its allies tell us that blue skies lie on the other side. Here we are humble, here we confront the truth of the worst of our historic parents legacy, either in interaction with them or through whatever means will best help us integrate the truth, and through this our journey rages forward.


With each dissociated demon we conquer we take a further step into the fourth stage: enlightenment. This is the stage of emotional integration, psychic balance, and inner peace. Here lie our deepest goals. All want to know truth, and the enlightened person achieves it – in all parts of ourselves that arrive in the final stage. Here we grow able to distinguish light from shadow and water from mirage. Here we nurture the evolution of our primitive sides instead of expressing them destructively. Here we devote the best of ourselves to healing. Here we no longer traumatise others in the very patterns in which we were traumatised, but instead replicate the best of ourselves – and generate beauty in the world around us. Here, having healed our trauma, we share freely of our gifts, because now our gifts are accessible.

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Everybody’s so busy looking for answers these days

Everybody’s so busy looking for answers these days, we often forget to ask the right questions. That’s why we started The Ten Stages. A method of working through our world that helps us to become surprisingly relevant in a new connected world. If you want to know what we do, perhaps you should really ask what we do differently. Reconnection is our goal
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Becoming awakened to the ten stages is an introduction into a new way of life.

Becoming awakened to the ten stages is an introduction into a new way of life. Although we can and do intercede with others , we often do not. We live in a new and different world. Our mental make-up has changed . This is often painful . We may be attracted to some, but on a new level we have become incompatible with the mass.


We who have undertaken the path of healing, the path of resolving our deepest childhood traumas, are changed by it. We are no longer a like. We can relate to them, but they can no longer relate to us, because they have no frame of reference by which to understand us. We will judge them accurately, and they will only misjudge us in return labelling us as judgemental. We will breathe outside the box in which they operate.

This will be painful for us. We will often lack for company. We will know loneliness. We will know isolation. We will not always enjoy it. We will want approval from others who will not be able to give it. They will not be able to rescue us.


It is hard to be become awakened. Most have in our planet’s history died out quickly. Many of us do not find suitable friends. We have to learn to be alone. It is easier to join the flock and find our partner within its folds.

There is hope for the awakened. As we live a long time, we are compelled to struggle for the Ten Stages and the key, the child within. Perhaps we will catch hold and someday become more. Even if we do not prosper on a physical level, our ideas can…and already are instituting that change. This is a wonderful time of ten stage change. Our world is opening. Our world has a new and powerful truth filled message.

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